Are you in control of your life? Do people take advantage of you? Do you have trouble aying no?Christians often focus so much on being loving & giving that they forget their own creaturely limitations.Have you ever found yourself wondering:
Can I set limits & still be a loving person?
How do I answer someone who wants my time, love energy or money?
Why do I feel guilty when I consider setting boundaries?
In this best-selling award-winning book Cloud & Townsend give you biblically based answers to these & other tough questions, & show you how to set healthy boundaries with your parents, spouse, children , friends,co-workers, & even yourself.
Physical boundaries help you determine who may touch you & under what circumstances.
Mental boundaries five you the freedom to have your own thoughts & opinions.
Emotional boundaries help you deal with your own emotions & disengage from the harmful manipulative emotions of others.
Spiritual boundaries help you distinguish God's will from your own, & five you renewed awe for your Creator.
Richard Russell's comment: 'We have found this book, & others by these authors, profoundly liberating - more so than anything else in the field of Christian counselling. Even though there seems to be no direct influence Cloud & Townsend have developed a theory of human development & interpersonal relations that parallels Dooyeweerd's theory of societal sphere sovereignty where again the notion of boundaries is crucial.Highly recommended! Check out their other resources on 'Drs.Cloud & Townsend are clinical psychologists with practices in California.